Friends and lovers, what are you looking for?

So where do i find a sweet but strict woman to play with? This must be one of a universally asked questions by all men like myself. i am not trying to be greedy or anything. The truth is that i have a great partner who does like to play. We have a great time and i have no complaints. Because she and i have a poly-amorous relationship and because for so many years before i was not able to, i would like to have another lover, an Auntie to visit. A nice zaftig, rubenesque woman who likes to overpower, tantalize and feminize men. Is that so much to ask for? It must not be because i have a partner like that now.


Being poly-amorous to us means that we are able to develop deep relationship with each other AND someone else and that is so liberating. Personally i have no desire for a casual relationship. Many think poly-amory is just an excuse to have sex with whom ever you want. Sex is grand and yes it is certainly a driving force, but what do you talk about afterwards? How do you feel about what has happened, what is next and what might be better to try next time? The truth is that i am not simply looking to "get off", i can do that myself, but i AM looking to make a new friend and to invite special people into my life to enjoy the grand things it has to offer. So i really want to know her, understand what she likes and dislikes and enjoy the things that we might have in common. My sincerity can easily be verified by my partner and others who are currently in my life.

So yes i am looking for someone to play with in my life. A kinky, strict, zoftig Auntie type that loves to overpower, tantalize and feminize men. But i want someone balanced with depth who is looking to build a longterm sharing relationship as well. i am looking for a friend and lover that wants to be part of my life.

Thanks for reading my rant, i tried to keep it short and sweet. The question now is are you a interested in knowing me and perhaps playing too? i am certainly open to positive comments.